If you’re starting to date again, first dates might seem scary and nerve-wracking, however, it all depends on how you present yourself and what you’re looking for. Whether you met your date online or in social groups, there are some criteria that you should be aware of. If you’re nervous, here is some advice about seniors’ first date!
Expect to Be on Edge
A first date is reminiscent of a junior high school dance, with nervous individuals attempting to appear cool. But be wary of the jitters as they might make you feel so worried that you project your expectations onto this new person instead of seeing his or her genuine nature. As a result, be transparent and honest. Inquire about the problems that are most important to you and pay attention to the responses.
Expect to Trust First Impression
It’s crazy to think that determining the possibility of a new relationship requires multiple dates. That perspective dismisses the potential of magic, which is the obvious chemistry that a man and woman have from the beginning. So follow your instincts and gut as they will tell you whether or not the other person makes you feel good right away.
Be Patient
Daters in their 50s and beyond are less impulsive, which is a positive thing. We’ve had enough life experience by now to know better than to fall in love with the first person we meet. We know what works and what doesn’t for us. We feel that finding a fulfilling relationship is still feasible if we are patient enough to wait for the right person to appear.
Expect the Truth
Even if your heart wants to convince you that he or she is the one, you should force your brain to inquire about your partner’s financial situation, relationship goals, and dating history. Ensure to maintain eye contact and make it apparent that you’re looking for the truth, not a filtered version of it.
Expect Respect
If you feel like your date is condescending or being rude to you, you can simply thank them for their time and walk out the door. Under any circumstances, you should not let yourself be disrespected as it’s unacceptable, especially on the first date as it’s unlikely that they will be any better with time.
Expect a Close Fit
Forget about the nonsense about “opposites attracting.” You want to discover someone who is the most like you as possible. Most people are hesitant to seek out someone who is exactly like them because they are afraid that they would share not only their qualities but also their flaws. However, your soul mate is more likely to be someone who shares your personality, likes, and temperament. Hence, it’s more compatible for you to find someone who has similar interests or personality traits to you.
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